The Quick and Easy Way to Effective Speaking

Posted: June 23, 2007 in Personality Development

Fundamentals of Effective Speaking

1. Acquiring the Basic Skills

  • Take heart from the experience of others
  • Keep your goal before you
  • Predetermine your mind to success
  • Seize every opportunity to practice

2. Developing Confidence

  • Get the facts about fear of speaking in public
  • Prepare in the proper way
  • Predetermine your mind to success
  • Act confident

3. Speaking Effectively the Quick and Easy Way

  • Speaking about something you have earned the right to talk about through experience or study
  • Be sure you are excited about your subject
  • Be eager to share your talk with your listeners

Speech, Speaker, and Audience

1. Earning the Right to Talk

  • Limit your subject
  • Develop reserve power
  • Fill your talk with illustrations and examples
  • Use concrete, familiar words that create pictures

2. Vitalizing the Talk

  • Choose subjects you are earnest about
  • Relive the Feelings you have about your topic
  • Act in earnest

3. Sharing the Talk with the Audience

  • Talk in terms of your listeners' interests
  • Give honest, sincere appreciation
  • Identify yourself with the audience
  • Make your audience a partner in your talk
  • Play yourself down

The Purpose of Prepared and Impromptu Talks

1. Making the Short Talk to Get Action

  • Give your example, an incident from your life
  • State your point, what you want the audience to do
  • Give the reason or benefit the audience may expect

2. Making the Talk to Inform

  • Restrict your subject to fit the time at your disposal
  • Arrange your ideas in sequence
  • Enumerate your points as you make them
  • Compare the strange with the familiar
  • Use visual aids

3. Making the Talk to Convince

  • Win confidence by deserving it
  • Get a Yes-response
  • Speakin with contagious enthusiasm
  • Show respect and affection for your audience
  • Begin in a friendly way

4. Making Impromptu Talks

  • Practice impromptu speaking
  • Be mentally ready to speak impromptu
  • Get into an example immediately
  • Speak with animation and force
  • Use the principle of the Here and the Now
  • Don't talk impromptu--Give an impromptu talk

The Art of Communicating

1. Delivering the Talk

  • Crash through your shell of self-consciousness
  • Don't try to imitate others--Be yourself
  • Converse with your audience
  • Put your heart into your speaking
  • Practice making your voice strong and flexible

The Challenge of Effective Speaking

1. Introducing Speakers, Presenting and Accepting Awards

  • Thoroughly prepare what you are going to say
  • Follow the T-I-S Formula
  • Be enthusiastic
  • Thoroughly prepare the talk of presentation
  • Express your sincere feelings in the talk of acceptance

2. Organizing the Longer Talk

  • Get attention immediately
  • Avoid getting unfavorable attention
  • Support your main ideas
  • Appeal for action

3. Applying What You Have Learned

  • Use specific detail in everyday conversation
  • Use effective speaking techniques in your job
  • Seek Opportunities to speak in public
  • You must persist
  • Keep the certainty of reward before you
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